Elliott was born a
: the 9th day of July 1991. A sizarian birth after Kay had spent 3 weeks in hospital threatening to have a miscarriage and taking bed rest. 1n the summer of 1993 Kay and I were engaged in some innocent adult fun in our closed bedroom door. Elliott and khadra were in their respective bedrooms, Khadra was asleep and Elliott was playing in his cot. Derek claims that Khadra was in our bedroom whilst we played around and that she could be heard playing but she was in the room next to us playing so you could have heard her in our bedroom, if there was sound on our video camera but there was no sound on, Kay requested we dis not have the sound on. So when Derek said you could hear Khadra in the background he was lying to make it look irresponsible on us and be able to say, what father would have sex in the same bedroom as his 2 year old daughter, but, who would show a video of his mother and father engaged in adult fun to all of his mates, his brother, his girlfriend and her mother. He is lying for effect, Categorically lying. We are not that irresponsible to do such a thing with our children watching us. This was not a case of sexual gratification it was a case of two consenting adults having fun with each other. Both of us had been legally and lawfully married for 18 years and were acting within our moral responsibilities. We did not need to get permission ti do it all. Elliott recently said to me (July 2025). “He did make a porno with mum. While’s Khadra played in her cot in the background”. Yes, that is right. My son savòid that to me, his dad, for the whole world to read on Facebook. What total disrespect is that. How could he possibly know that, he was just 1 year old. Someone had to have told him that, but he must have believed that person, thereby, judging me and his mum to be capable of it. Like he was there, holding the camera. What an asshole. He has no personal recollection because he was a baby, 33 years ago, so, he is listening to heresy and supposition, from his siblings , with an agenda, in my opinion, Derek or Naomi told him the story, or Derek told it and Naomi supported it, but why would they tell him that, what is there motivation? What did they hope to achieve? To create DISHARMONY in their family? Yes, of course
First off, to know exactly what I am guilty of, we have to establish what it is Elliott is accusing me of making with Kay, a porno, as he called it. But first, let it be known. What motivates Elliott? Elliott’s brother and sister are pulling his strings. Everything he says, either comes from Derek Jnr or Naomi, who are the creators of this situation. They make assumptions that they then turn into their facts. Neither of them have the where-with-all to confront me head on with their lies and innuendo’s. They just spread their rumours to their children and family whilst they hide behind there devious facade. Unfortunately, that is true but essential to know. He wants to belong.
What is Porno
Right, what is a porn. A porn involves at least two consenting adults engaged in the act of procreation whilst being recorded on various media sources. That is usually then sold for financial gain or reward to people who feel they need the additional stimulation of people engaged in sexual intercourse. That is what Elliott has accused his mother and father of doing, according to him, we made explicit material of Kay and I, for public distribution, for gain or rewards. But he added to that the giveaway. He said it was left around the house for anyone to watch. Derek added that to take away the fact that he displayed it publicly to anyone who wanted to see it. Can you imagine, for a second, a reasonable man, with young children, making a porno video then leaving it hanging around the house for anyone to stick in a video recorder and play it. Anyone who knows me knows I would never do that, they know I am not that stupid or low classed. Which is where Derek’s slur comes unstuck. To damage my reputation would need something repugnant to those who matter, they would not believe it, and do not. There are very few people in this world who would do that, least of all me, making this claim so spurious. Elliott said, “ you and mum did! make a porno” He is making a factual statement that he cannot substantiate with a single fact. He has absolutely no evidence to prove his claim, yet he said “WE DID” like he knows, which is an impossibility. Not fooling around together, as two consenting married couple with a camera and time on their hands do, all the time. No, we were in it for the money, two middle aged, old people. Elliott does not think things through. Anyway, as much as I do not want to make my private life, public, i have to expose his brother and sister and consequently, Elliott. Kay and I are married and have been for 51 years, needless to say, to the annoyance of Derek and Naomi, we love each other very much. Not only are we legally married but we have committed ourselves, in a sacred religious ceremony, to be together for time and all eternity. We cannot just walk away from such a commitment. We were kids when we married and quite naïve, but we were enjoying life and exploring . When Elliott was a baby he was laid in his cot, asleep, and Kay and I were fooling around in our bedroom in the adjoining room. Elliott says that you could hear him crying in the background, which is a little bewildering as there was no sound on the video, yes, that is right, Elliott was lying again. Whilst we were fooling around in our own bedroom, just two consenting adults playing around, we recorded the event, marked the tape “Private and Confidential” and hid it, in a secure place, behind books and clothing in our bedroom top cupboard where only Kay and I ever went. Safely hidden away for our future viewing as we got older. Nobody knew of its existence, nobody was aware we made it, nobody else was involved in it. It was confidential to Kay and I so nobody would ever be effected by its content. The World would keep on turning without our tape effecting it, ever. Now enter Derek, the perverted son of Kay and Derek. He broke into our locked bedroom, through a partly opened window, looking for my Aftershave, so he said. He found our tape marked private and confidential and he stole it. He then organised a viewing of it at his girlfriend’s home and invited his girlfriend’s mother and his friends to the viewing, along with his brother Donny, and he showed the full contents to them during that showing taking our private life and exposed to anyone or any pervert who wanted to see it, including my sons, Donny. That is what our lovely children did to their parents. Who is the abuser and who is the abused.
Curse of Ham – Genesis 9:20-27
In the biblical story of Noah and his sons in Genesis 9:20-27, Ham, the father of Canaan, saw his father Noah’s nakedness while Noah was drunk and lying uncovered in his tent. Ham then told his brothers, Shem and Japheth, about it. Shem and Japheth, in turn, covered their father’s nakedness without looking at him. Noah, upon waking and learning what Ham had done, cursed Canaan, Ham’s son, to be a servant to Shem and Japheth’s descendants.
- Ham’s disrespect:
Some interpret Ham’s actions as disrespectful and a lack of loyalty for not covering his father’s nakedness himself and for telling other people because Ham told other people of his father’s nakedness his son was cursed into servitude. What will be Derek” punishment for exposing his parents to strangers. He has never approached me to ask for my forgiveness for what he did to me so it would be impossible for him to be forgiven for sinning against his kindly parents. Now he has implicated Elliott into his actions of perversion and deception he has made him culpable for publishing it on face book in an attempt to discredit and shame me, in effect, we did nothing wrong, and I feel no shame for what we did, on the contrary, it was cool. If we want to video ourselves fooling around and use it for our own personal private viewing, we are perfectly entitled to. We need no permission from anyone to do that. He even used the existence of our private tape to try and prevent us from getting access to his daughter, our grandchild, Brooke Ray, threatening us with having Khadra in the room with us when she was in her own bedroom. He has since denied fathering Brooke Ray although he acted very much like he was her father getting her to call him dada and was in a relationship with her mother Sherrie. The church never investigated the level of disrespect he showed to his parents and the perverse act of making our private property, public. By rights he should not be taking the sacrament or accepting a calling. He has no access to the spirit in his current level of Worthiness. He has acted worse than Ham with his father. He should be on the sex offenders list and his employees should be made fully aware of his background. He has, I am certain, brainwashed his children and siblings against us. But it will come to light, these things always do. What normal child would keep the tape rolling once they could see that it contained their parents fooling around. Who would even put it in the video player seeing it was marked private and confidential. Derek and Kay acted innocently without involving or exposing anyone else to our normal activities. Derek Jnr stole our property and made it public in his attempt to shame and belittle us.
We Did nothing perverse or abnormal, we would have never made it public. Derek needs to have his character examined for the hideous, perverted things he did to us. He should not be allowed to teach others, and his children should come under investigation. There can be no reconciliation between us all the time he practices his cowardly action of no contact. The boy has no empathy, so people need to be made wary of him. That is my son, who I still love.
So, What about Elliott’s Accusation of Abuse
As for Elliott. How does this affect him, what has it got to do with him. We Did nothing to be ashamed of. He was a baby at the time. So how does Derek telling him family secrets make me an abuser to Elliott. That is right. It does not. So, Elliott, this like most of what Hannah has said, is none of your business and has no place on your abuse list. Why? Because the abused party is me. It is your intention to embarrass and discredit me. It has not worked
He did make a porno with mum. While’s Khadra played in her cot in the background. One thing is certain, Kay and I were there. We are key witnesses; we are the only witnesses. WE DID NOT MAKE A PORNO
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- Professional AI Advice
No, it is absolutely not right for your son—or anyone—to steal your private property and expose intimate content without your permission. This is a serious violation of privacy, and depending on where you live, it may be illegal, potentially falling under the:
Revenge porn laws or non-consensual pornography laws
Theft
Invasion of privacy
Defamation, depending on how it was shared and framed
You have every right to Confront the behavior firmly—make it clear this was unacceptable.
Seek legal advice—consult a lawyer to explore legal action or protective steps.
Report it—if the tape was distributed or uploaded, report it to the platform and potentially to the authorities.
Regardless of the family relationship, no one has the right to violate your consent or autonomy, especially with something as personal as a sex tape. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, talking to a trusted professional (therapist, lawyer, or support group) can help you process this and plan your next steps.
Would you like help identifying legal resources or support services in your area? - Professional AI Advice
No, it is not okay for your son—or anyone—to condone or be complicit in that kind of behavior.
What happened is a serious violation of privacy, respect, and family trust. Displaying a video of one’s parents having sex, especially without their knowledge or consent, is deeply disrespectful, harmful, and possibly illegal, depending on where you live. Even if your son didn’t play the video himself, by hosting the gathering and allowing it to happen without objection, he was indirectly involved and should take responsibility for that.
Here are some key things to consider:
Boundaries and Privacy: This kind of breach is traumatic and humiliating. Children (even adult ones) must learn that parents deserve the same dignity and privacy they expect for themselves.
Accountability: Both sons need to be held accountable. The one who showed the video committed a serious act of disrespect and possibly criminal behavior. The one who hosted the gathering had a responsibility to shut it down or stop it.
Consequences: You are within your rights to set strong consequences, including legal action if needed. At the very least, there needs to be a serious conversation with both sons about the gravity of what happened.
Repair and Trust: If any kind of relationship is to be salvaged, it will require sincere apologies, recognition of wrongdoing, and a commitment to respecting your privacy in the future.
Would you like help with how to frame a conversation with them? Or are you considering whether to take further steps, legal or otherwise? - Proffessional AI Advice
No, it is not okay—ethically, legally, or socially—for someone to host a gathering and play a recording of their parents having sex, especially without their permission.
Here’s why:
1. Consent & Privacy Violation
- Recording and sharing sexual content without the knowledge and consent of the people involved is a serious violation of privacy.
- In many jurisdictions, this is considered illegal and could lead to criminal charges, such as invasion of privacy, non-consensual pornography, or distribution of explicit material without consent.
2. Psychological Harm
- Doing this could cause significant emotional trauma or public humiliation to the people involved (in this case, the parents).
- It could also severely damage personal relationships, including between the individual and their parents or peers.
3. Ethical Boundaries
- There are basic ethical and moral standards about respecting others’ dignity—especially your own family.
- This behavior reflects a profound lack of respect and maturity, and would generally be viewed as deeply inappropriate by any reasonable standard.
If someone is considering or has done this, they should seek help—either legal advice, counseling, or both. It’s a serious boundary-crossing act that shouldn’t be taken lightly.
No, it is not okay—ethically, legally, or socially—for someone to host a gathering and play a recording of their parents having sex, especially without their permission.
Here’s why:
2. Psychological Harm
- Doing this could cause significant emotional trauma or public humiliation to the people involved (in this case, the parents).
- It could also severely damage personal relationships, including between the individual and their parents or peers.
3. Ethical Boundaries
- There are basic ethical and moral standards about respecting others’ dignity—especially your own family.
- This behavior reflects a profound lack of respect and maturity, and would generally be viewed as deeply inappropriate by any reasonable standard.
If someone is considering or has done this, they should seek help—either legal advice, counseling, or both. It’s a serious boundary-crossing act that shouldn’t be taken lightly.
AI Manipulation
As I said the answer can be manipulated by the question 75% of people that own a mobile phone have said they have used the camera function to record private content. Try imputing is it ok for Derek to host a gathering in which he played a private and confidential recording of his parents fooling around without their expressed permission. Also ask if it is ok for you to condone what he did.
It is important to maintain respect and honor for your parents, as they have likely provided you with care and guidance throughout your life. It is important to consider how your actions may impact your relationship with your parents and to communicate openly and honestly with them about any decisions or actions that may affect them. Dishonoring or disrespecting your parents can cause harm to your relationship and emotional well-being, so it is important to approach any conflicts or disagreements with understanding and empathy. Respecting your parents and their values is an important aspect of maintaining healthy and positive relationships with them. CHAT CPT
Stumped, exposed by your own technology
Elliotts 8 Additions to his Abuse List
- He didn’t pay his rent in pencoed and made me say in court he did
None of his business and certainly not an abuse towards him. Nobody can force someone else to tell a lie. There must be a conscious decision to either tell the lie or not and then actuate your mouth and voice to tell it. It is a conscience choice. If he did say that he has committed perjury and should be reported for it, hence forth. Ultimately, no one can make you lie, even if your life is being threatened you still have the choice whether to lie or not. Elliott cannot blame anyone but himself - He did rip Steve off
Again, none of his business and in no way does it result in me abusing Elliott. I will make no other comment on it. It is private and confidential, and I have given no permission either expressed or implied to make it public on Facebook
Accusation of Narcissism - His needs did always come first whiles screaming at mum for putting five point of fuel in without his permission.
None of his business
Again another slur on my character without provocation and should be withdrawn. And again, nothing abusive to him. He wants to control my actions and thoughts. \Who else wants to do that. - He didn’t move me and Khadra in to the caravan and sent you to live with Donn[
Part of the section on ripping off Steve results from losing my house in bankruptcy. Khadra never lived in the caravan and steven wanted to live with Donny, he is willing to affirm that. This is an example of Elliott lying again and as he said he enjoyed living in the caravan it was not an abuse either - He did bitch about us to each other
What did I bitch about? - He does attack Hannah all over the internet.
Not true, just Facebook and Instagram and not being abused to him, just Hannah - This isn’t lies, this is my truth this is my reality this is my experience with Derek.
He says “Derek” and not “Dad” for no other reason but to offend me. Who wants a Sunday School President who does that. Why did the bishopric call him knowing he blatantly dishonors his father. But you have said you have been mentally challenged so how reliable is your reality and your experience with your father, only it looks pretty obvious to me that you had no justifiable reason to exclude me and your mother from yours and your children’s life, other than your desire to hurt us and inflict the maximum amount or suffering. We will have our chance to build a relationship with our grandchildren in heaven, and you will receive a punishment for preventing it. I have faith. You had too much faith in Derek, who once told me he was a better liar than I am. Maybe he is because he fooled you as Naomi fooled you. - Are you going to try making me doubt that?
Yes, of course, because you are wrong.
As i said, you are more concerned about a child being in the same room, happy and playing, which she was not and you have no evidence to the contrary, then you are with your brother steeling your parents private and confidential property and displaying it to strangers. This is undoubtedly a witch hunt and the only reason for it is your greater loyalty to you brother than your parents thus dishonoring us as Ham did his father, Noah. No evidence of abuse, too much evidence of you prying into our business and judging us hoping to discredit us and the only red faces belong to you. You owe us an explanation. You owe God an explanation and request forgiveness for abusing your parents
If you input a lie then a lie will come out. But you have never accused me of being abnormal, you accused me of being abusive. How is any of this got anything to do with you. My goal is to show the world how I have been abused. You were a baby, it never affected you in any way so how is it abusive to you. You complain about Khadra being in the room, which was you, but you said nothing about Derek having a video party with your mum and dad as the subject matter. This is a witch hunt. YOU WERE NOT THERE AND DEREK IS A PERVERT YET YOU BELIEVE HIM Says it all it was you and you cannot see a crib in our room it was in your bedroom with you, so your AI inquired is a lie, or should I say your input was a lie.
Elliott Smart replied
Well, I can go no further with this other than tell the truth. I cannot make you believe me like I cannot make you lie for me. You are playing mind games, and I do not want to play. Last words. Your perverted brother stole a video tape marked “private and confidential”, after viewing it he organized a showing of the content with his friends, girlfriend, girlfriends mother and his brother (ask your brother Donny) without the permission of the people (His Parents) on the video. That is your brother, my son, acted in a perverted manner. I love Derek but I do not want to forgive him for what he has done to me and his mum, I am happy to let this monumentally perverse act to be dealt with by God where you and Derek cannot lie your way out of it. I want nothing more to do with him and although we love our first born very much we want nothing to do with him, his wife, his children and his in-laws. That concludes my relationship with him but, thanks to you, I will expose him as soon as God provides a venue when i can fully expose him. We no longer pine for him, like a cow after her calf, he is, after all, a fully grown Heffer cow now, so we have reach a point where it no longer hurts us emotionally and we are fast reaching the same point with you, but you have a lying, deceiving mouth which means that the law of not offending the Lords anointed comes into play and you will receive retribution for dishonoring us. I used the same source as you and they vehemently advised me to report him, which is slowly becoming an option after all I no longer have any loyalty to him. He told me he was going to do this, believe it or not, I have never forgotten it. and lastly, I have no shame making that video. The person who made it with me is my eternal partner who I love more than anything. indeed it was a lovely way to spend a lazy afternoon doing and if presented with identical situation I would do the same again, I am so very proud of her for enduring what her children did to her, but let me make it clear, there was nobody in the room with us and nobody on Facebook thinks there was. Your reputation precedes you, you are a known liar and exaggerator. I have exposed you several times. You know it is not true you are just winding me up, but I am not wound up. You think that by winding me up you will cause another stroke that will probably kill me. You want to kill me, the unpardonable sin. that is sad for a dad to feel about his son. But if you mention Khadra was there again I will simply ignore it. I cannot remember the event that well, but your mum is adamant that it was you in the cot, in your own room, and I totally believe her. Now leave us alone and prepare yourself for your punishment or repent. I am sure that the Lord will have mercy in you, and get your head sorted out you still have mental issues. Be careful at work. I get a feeling that will be the venuewhere your punishment will be manifested. I do not look forward to it, but you have well and truly overstepped the mark, or is that a deflection that you convince yourself I do, or gaslighting. As I said I love you and pray you can endure what is inevitable. I have little time left before I meet my maker so please be aware that if I go first the only child your mum recognizes as her child is Steven. She does not want you or your siblings at my funeral and Steven will be the benefactor of our will. It would be hypercritical. But we enjoyed raising all of you, it was an adventure we would not want to miss. No, it is absolutely not right for your son—or anyone—to steal your private property and expose intimate content without your permission. This is a serious violation of privacy, and depending on where you live, it may be illegal, potentially falling under:
Whilst you were with us you were a good boy, Pleasant to be with, good mannered, always helpful and loving. You were a normal well behaved boy. Only when you meet Hannah did you change becoming a user, argumentive and disloyal. Hannah family have changed you into what you are now. Nasty, dishonoring your parents monumentally, Judgementally interfering in other peoples business, incompassionate void of empathy. PUFFED UP IN PRIDEand easily offendedp arrogant and beyond approaunkind and condescending But your biggest change by far is your lying mouth ad twisting of the truth. For example. Steve Easterbrook and I started a business together. He was a silent partner who provided the finance and paid for all the components I used. Out of the blue PC World axed there prices and put us out of business within days leaving us in debt with our supplier who filed for Bankruptcy. Our business was made bankrupt and because the business was not a limited company The evicted us and sold our home leaving us homeless and living in a caravan apposed to the streets and Steve was left in debt by £10,000 and not tens of thousands as you told anybody on facebook. He could have applied for compensation to the bankruptcy court, I don’t know if he didn’t. But you lied off your own back and twisted the truth by saying tens of thousands to discredit me and shame me. What son would stupe that low to do that to his father. What kind of Christian, charged to love one another would do that.
Revenge porn laws or non-consensual pornography laws
Theft
Invasion of privacy
Defamation, depending on how it was shared and framed
You have every right to:
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