Goodbye to Naomi as an Adult

I will never converse in writing with you ever again for you to cut and paste to share such personal topics on abuse with the world in an attempt to belittle what you have done to us all.

What have I done. Please do not tell me “IT?” If you were not ashamed of the words you spoke to me, exposure would have meant nothing to you. Only when what you say brings condemnation upon your soul would you feel shame. Your shame is in calling your mother Kay and me Derek. It is in forgetting who we are and what we did for you. It is in the ability to cut those who love you dearly out of your life and the life of your children without remorse or care. I was there when your body started it’s mortal journey, as was your mum. We both witnessed together the bond we shared with you as we held you together and cried. We will continue to pray to God to release us from that bond and hope he will show us leniency and grant it. If not, we will be there when your life ends to return to us in the covenant we made with God to be sealed to you for time and all eternity. That is my promise to you.

will never converse in writing with you ever again for you to cut and paste to share such personal topics on abuse with the world in an attempt to belittle what you have done to us all.

I live a life where I try to have as much peace and serenity in a world that is chaotic beyond words. I always try to be kind to others, have an understanding for their situations and a genuine empathy. However I have always been hugely bothered by bullies, narcissists, liars and jealousy. All things that you possess in abundance.

I’m happy with my decision to keep you and Kay as far away as I can from my children, my husband and myself. I know it is the right thing to do. Just skimming your blog reinforces this, it reminds me of what you are and I’m grateful for that reminder.

This is a promise to you and all 2 of your subscribers that no writings from me will ever be received and added here. A wise person once said
‘the reason why adult children become estranged from their parents is because their parents presence is more harmful than their absence’

I do not live in hope that one day you’ll have an epiphany and change, I know this will not happen in my lifetime. I do, however wish you well. I wish you to experience the feeling of contentment and inner happiness before the end of your days. I have taken on board what you have said about how happy Kay is and I feel at peace with this also that you can both enjoy each others company during your end of life experience.

No hard feelings, no anger etc. Let’s just wish each other well as we go our separate ways content knowing that each of us is loving our best lives. Accepting that this cannot be possible with us on any sort of speaking terms.

Goodbye both ❤

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