We Did Our Best

Leaving Facebook

I think It is time to take a break from Facebook. Elliott’s recent escapade has made it necessary for us to withdraw our membership on Facebook. I have no alternative but to take a bow and leave the stage and the theatre. This last altercation has left me feeling humiliated and mortified at how Elliott has acted by portraying himself as a spoilt brat stamping his feet to have his own way. As his father I feel partly responsible for his poor behaviour. I promise you that I never raised him with such an attitude. We rarely disagreed with them when they were children, we just gave them their own way. Let me just say that i have never heard him speak with such aggression and hatred, this is not how he was raised the, it must be the result of who he now hangs with and has married. let me assure you that I have never heard him speak like he has here throughout his entire childhood. Elliott was always placid and considerate to others. He has always treated us with the greatest of love and respect never giving us cause to chastise him, he was my boy. I cannot recall a single time we fell out. He loved his mum and dad and respected us. We have never acted like this in our home but the first time we met his wife at her home she was arguing and shouting in the street with one of her neighbours threatening her with violence. I have no idea what Elliott has been exposed to for him to act so badly and uncaring and then goes to church on a Sunday as though butter would not melt in his mouth, partaking of the sacrament and accepting church callings that should have never been extended to him until he brings his own house to order. I am prone to airing my dirty washing but never like he has just done, i can only but apologise to everyone who was exposed, including my own behaviour for responding, and retaliating to his unfounded claims and assertions
I am feeling old now, i have very little time left to offer anything to people. I have my close elderly friend but i am too old for anyone to want to befriend me because i will be dead soon. It is so disappointing to be treated so bad by a son who should be looking after me in my old age so this behaviour of his is soul destroying. Effectively he has jumped onto his brother bandwagon who has shown an exemplary resilience in “no comment regime” not speaking to us for twelve years for no justifiable reason, indeed, he has disrespected us to a greater degree then Ham did and by rights should have been excommunicate for bringing his parents into unfounded disrepute and shame but has never apologised so the sin is still current.
I am too shamed to continue on here. I raised them so must take some responsibility for their wayward actions. On here you saw that Donny, who I had never fallen out with, effectively beat me up just before my 70th birthday damaging the ligaments in both for figures and punched me in the nose and face just after drinking three quarters of a bottle of whisky. I told him that he needs to apologise, he never did so we are estranged today. Naomi broke my confidence severely and tried, very hard, to bring my marriage to Kay to an end by spreading lies about me to her and told lies about me. Nasty lies, she would not apologise to me. Khadra, I never fell out with her, we never had a bad word but she turned on me after visiting her brother, Derek one weekend. She emailed us and told us she wants nothing to do with us and when we tried to contact her to ask why, she called the police on us for putting a picture of us on Facebook. Naomi opened a group for her and her siblings then taunts me by saying how good it is to be able to talk about us without us knowing. This is but the tip of an iceberg. All of it happen in public on Facebook, totally shaming Kay and I disappointing us and causing me to have a stroke. We loved our time raising them into adulthood and gave them everything they needed and more. We never had any altercations with them and cherish those years. Unfortunately, they all married people from broken home and very shortly after they got married they emancipated us and took our grandchildren from us, the cruellest thing they ever did. We are so ashamed with what they have done to us that we feel we cannot show our faces on here shamed at how they have turned out. Thank you everyone, I will contact you all privately to show my gratitude

Contradictions of Abuse.

Contradiction of Abuse

It intrigues me to hear Elliott admit that he knows all about what abusive actually is. How would he know that if he hadn’t familiarised himself to what abuse is. So straight off we know he is experienced in the definition of what abuse actually consists of, although, by his own descriptions his experience is suspect, and his definitions are comical and said with superciliously condescension “Won’t wash with me”, and why, because he is a cool dude and knows what abuse entails, basically, “it takes one to know one”. He is unintentionally exposing himself. The most bizarre thing then happens, he says “look at his Facebook, it is full of abuse” Again he admits his familiarity with abuse, or so he thinks, because my post is primarily full of my defence against his slurs and lies about me. A defence against his incessant abuse towards me. He insults me in every sentence his writes and the insults are all really nasty, made worse by the fact that his nastiness is directed at his father who has shown nothing but love towards him. All this is escalated by the fact that he was recorded emotionally abusing his son, Isaac, by trying to force him to give a talk during sacrament leaving a very bewildered and confused young boy distraught at his father’s insistence that he reads out the talk that his father has prepared for him. On the outset you can see his hypocrisy and nonchalant, unconcerned attitude towards me, his father and his disrespect that seems to be instilled in him by his wife, Hannah

Sealed with a Kiss

SEALED WITH A KISS

I know i said i was going, and I am, but I need to just clear this up before I go. This is a duecy. This really, and truly exposes Elliott as a big fat liar. Now, Elliott has been told by Derek or Naomi that I kissed a girl in a night club. Why has he said that for, because he wants to put a wedge between Kay and I but all he has done is make himself look folish, nothing new their. They have told Eliott that I kissed a girl in the night club, and he has just believed them without question instead of his Dad, Derek, who has no reason to lie to him. You see their are some unusual anomalies in that. He said one of my friends from university was the one i kissed. You see i only went to a night out with my university friends the weekend after we finished our exams. Derek and Donny were not there and neither was Kay. I went on my own and because I was tĥe oldest one there I came home early to let the kids enjoy themselves. So he has lied when he said Derek and Donny was there. They never met my university friends. Also, I have never been to a night club without Kay but Elliott said that Derek and Donny were there which means Kay would have been there to because I have never been to a night club without her. That means that if I kissed a girl Kay would have seen it because not only have I never been to a night club without her I have never been without her when we went, not even to dance. So Elliott is saying that Kay sat by and watched me kiss a girl. Anyone who knows Kay would know that would never happen, so, another lie falling out of Elliott’s mouth. It would be quite impossible for me to kiss a girl in  night club without  Kay breathing down my neck whilst beating up the girl. It does not really matter if you do not believe me because your mother knows different and that is all that matters. She knows I have never kissed another girl. You should have known as well. I love your mother more than life itself. Basically your accusation cannot be remotely true. You have been duped. If you were duped by them on this what else have you been sucked in with. Is this your reality because I see nothing real in your lies, so is it real that I am an abuser or is that your reality as well. You are a fool.