Derek’s Malicious Accusations

and Lies

On the blog program I am using I have a facility that allows people to comment on whatever I have written. A good way to get appraisal for what I have written, however, it will also allow misuse. People can write malicious comments as well, which is inconvenient and just not nice. Unfortunately, I have just experienced such an event. A woman called Sarah Gullet and a person called AD sent derogatory comments into my account. They were hostile remarks that were insulting and full of gas lighting intended to knock my confidence. It would be fare of me to say that they were malicious and unkind. I was very quickly aware that their was no reasoning with this person. No sooner had i disproved one issue did she either move the goal posts or move onto another issue or fabrication and it was relentless, so much so that i had to block her just to be able to read the hog wash that she was writing. She was insulting and nasty. What was concerning was the half truths, innuendos and hearsays that were being peddled and directed at me But there were things said that could have only come from my son, Derek. Derek has not spoken to me for nearly 10 years yet he speaks to this fool. What he was saying to me was related to who I was and not to who I am. That is unfair. Yes 10 years, that on it’s own should tell you the calibre of the person who has the ability to do that. If it were me I would have tried to resolve our issues after a half an hour. Derek has far too much pride and malice in him. He is far too stubborn to be able to resolve issues between us. Life is too short to harbour such stupidity and resentment.

Derek did something to us when he was 17 that was deplorable and horrible, it borders on the unforgiveable. He disgraced us and shamed us callously and without a care. It was a  contravention of the commandment to honour your mother and father, but worse than that, what Ham did when he looked upon his father’s nakedness, what Derek did was a hundred times worse then what Ham did and Ham was sent into servitude for what he did. Now what he did was entirely wrong. It cannot be justified or excused for any reason, it was blatantly wrong. He searched through my personal property in the draws and cupboards in my bedroom looking for my aftershave, after breaking into the bedroom through an insecure window. Whilst he was rifling through my personal possessions he stole a personal item marked private and confidential that was hidden  in a tall cupboard, like those you see over beds, not hanging around for everyone to pick up and examine, as the infamous Sarah Gullet said, and took it out of the house, and then divulged it’s contents to his friends. To make it clear. He did not have our consent to search our bedroom cupboards and drawers. He did not have our permission to take an item from the cupboard out of the house. He did not have our permission to show that item to his friends. Lastly, I did not sit by watching as he examined the item taken out of the cupboard in my bedroom. Sarah Gullet stated that I allowed him to look at this item. She is lying, I would not have done that, it is private but she just wants to portray me as careless, and irresponsible, gas lighting. I get the feeling that it is her job to destroy peoples character and resilience for some reason. To wear them down. She also reveals her obsession with anal sex and pornography as well, but I ignored that. One can only assume that she has a problem with her sexuality. She is preoccupied and fascinated with my personal and private sex life, for some reason.

So this person, called Sarah Gullit, claims to be a professional self employed phycologist who works from home and has offered my children free consultations. She came on my blog as mad as a hatter and very angry and obstinate. This self proclaimed professional woman instantly jumped onto the side of my wayward children refusing to listen to any reasoning or listen to what I had to say. She is extremely bias and rude. A professional is usually neutral until he/she gets the full story from both sides before determining who is at fault, if anyone. She did not give it a second, she was right in their condemning me without me even writing a single word. She implies that I am a liar because my son, who has not spoken to me for ten years, told her I was a liar. Something is not right there. She is either a member of his family, a close friend or Derek himself. Derek is angry with me because I have exposed him for what he did to his parents. He will not talk to me because he fears a verbal thrashing from me, which he knows will come. He, like the rest of my children was a good boy when he was a kid but as soon as he found a girl to date he lost it all. The girl, as per usual, was from a severely broken home where the entire family had mental issues. She used her sexuality to get Derek to do what ever she wanted him to do. He lost total respect for us and became obstinate, awkward and difficult. He was intolerable and knew it all. He eventually got this girl pregnant, although he denies it now and has selected another father for her. We never got over that period and Derek would do all he could to offend us. His antics features heavily in my book. You will not believe how cruel he was to his mother calling her Rose West. I gave him three olive branches that he promptly refused. There is nothing more I can do, so, we have given up on him. He is too bitter and twisted to put up with. We are to old and fragile.