We Did Our Best

I think that i should just remind the reader why I do what I do here. One thing for certain is that i am not enjoying myself. indeed, I hate the negative emotions it induces in me. I have an analytical mind, thus, I do not understand why 5 out of 6 of my children have rebelled against myself and Kay as soon as they got married, therefore, I am trying very hard to understand why my children have done what they have done when they have done it. I did not just wake up one morning and say to myself, “I think I will upset my children today and make them hate me by writing bad things about them on  Facebook. “The thing is, I love my children. I sometimes wish I did not, especially when they are breaking the hearts of Kay and I. We do not want that at our age. We do not relish confrontation with anyone. We just want a quiet life now. We have not attacked anyone. We are the victims of malicious attacks, innuendos, and outright lies from our children and most of their spouses. We have not been looking forward to confrontations with our children when we go through our end of life experience. My wife is distraught at what they have done to us, and now Derek, who is the instigator of our emancipations, is having a go with his slurs, lies, and false accusations. Most of the time, i am defending myself against pithy barbs. I was, quite literally, sat at home looking through my facebook, when I noticed a friends request from Elliott’s wife, Hannah. I really did think that we were going to get an apology from her and return to normal. Instead, i received a barrage of complaints about how i raised Elliott. Instead of my children jumping in to defend their dad, they jumped on the band wagon that was set into motion by Derek. I was dumb founded, and the arguments began because nothing they said literally had any substance to it. I have been defending myself ever since. Before the introduction of their spouses into our lives, all from broken homes, they were good children, Kay, and I could not have wished for better children. Then they got married, and it all collapsed  around us. So basically, I was criticised on my parenting skills and merely defended myself, and I am still defending myself today. I have not attacked anyone, other than in my defence, and just because they are my children does not mean I should sit back and just take it without a reaction. It makes it worse because I love them. I am not being mean, I am being realistic. Because Derek has never recognised the terrible sin he committed by steeling a private and personal item, hidden in my bedroom cupboard, he is an unrepentant sinner so is not allowed the blessings of communicating with the Holy Ghost, demonstrated in his poor decision making. He has caused his siblings to follow the piper (him), which is why 5 of them gradually, over 10 years, absconded.

Therefore, I am here defending Kay’s and my good name by proving that my children have been influenced and cadjoled by their partners and families into rebelling against their parents because their mindsets differ from that of my childrens, raised in a caring, loving and secure family environment.

Spilling the Beans to Sarah Gullit

I think that Derek’s attempt to use Sarah Gullit to hurt me has failed miserably. It is my genuine belief that if you strive to choose the right, then God has to bless you, he cannot do any different. Like the laws of the universe, cause will always produce an effect. An effect will always have a cause. Always. Blow a spherical object hard enough,  and the effect is motion. If you flagrantly contravene a commandment of God, you will receive a suitable reward for your actions. As certain as chips are chips, a cause will always produce an effect. Derek has knowingly prevented his children from communicating with their grandparents, probably by using lies to create the desire not to talk to us. In this case, that is the cause, lies. I would so love to know what he has told them, in his desperation, to keep them away from us. It must have been something really nasty and cruel. We know he has done or said something duplicitous that induces fear in them to put them off of us. We have given them no reason not to answer our letters to them. Probably the same blatant lies that he told Sarah Gullit. Lies that are sexual in nature because sexual sins are easier to make people look at the person with disdain and disgust, and if that on its own does not work, make up and blame and accuse the person for instigating anal sex. People hate the thought of that, especially religious people, and rightly so. If that does not work, then insinuate paedophilia and child abuse, which will do it. I have no doubt that my grandchildren think that I am a sexual preditor or/and a child abuser. Nothing else has the veracity to induce abhorance and turn blood relatives against their family. I know this is true because I know that is exactly what he told Sarah Gullit, and she, in turn, tried to ridicule me with his lies.

At the end of the day, he stole an object from my bedroom that was clearly marked “Private and Confidential.” He took something that he knew did not belong to him “hidden” in my bedroom cupboard. That is theft that contavenes a criminal law and a commandment from the 10 commandments. Thou shalt not steel

Exodus 20:15

King James Bible
Thou shalt not steal.

That is incontrovertible. If you believe that you have contravened that commandment then you must follow the following steps to resolve the sin.

President Spencer W. Kimball guided us when he gave us the following steps for repentance. He said

• We Must Recognize Our Sins. To repent, we must admit to ourselves that we have sinned. …
• We Must Feel Sorrow for Our Sins. …
• We Must Forsake Our Sins. …
• We Must Confess Our Sins. …
• We Must Make Restitution. …
• We Must Forgive Others. …
• We Must Keep the Commandments of God.

The relevant step here is you must make restitution. That is to restore the situation back to how it was before the sin was committed. To apologise for the effects of the sin. The action of returning something to a former owner, place, or condition, repair, repairing, fixing, mending, refurbishment, reconditioning. It is a fundamental requirement to obtain restitution. If you refuse to restore the situation by apologising then you become an unrepentant sinner and your refusal will cause the spirit to withdraw itself from you leaving you without the spirit of god and therefore without personal revelation, guidance or any influence by the spirit of God. This is a fundamental principle of all religions, whether LDS, Catholic, or Methodists. My son has never apologised to me, in any way, shape, or form for steeling from my cupboard, an item clearly belonging to Kay and I. He is, absolutely, an unrepentant sinner. There is no question about it.

Private and Personal

That object that was stolen was clearly marked, in indelible ink, “Private and confidential.” It could not be mistaken that it contained information, images, instructions, data of a confidential nature that the owner did not want to share with anyone else other than each other, not because it contained anything illegal or contrevertial but that it contained something that the owner did not want to share. That is a fundamental human right not to divulge personal and private information about themselves. Anyone taking that right from them is disrespectful and nasty. One reason is that it might be subjected to ridicule and judgement by those to whom its contents were refused, as Sarah Gullip did when that information was expressed to her by Derek Joseph Smart. His psychi  wants to hurt and upset others because he has no guidance from the spirit to tell him otherwise. He is preoccupied with sex and its variants and has judged the different methods according to his own desires and has told blatant lies about the sexual activities of his parents. If there were explicit details on that object, you would have thought that he would have turned it off immediately, as soon as he realised what it was instead of searching through it, which he admits to doing. We are his parents. What child would want to look at their parents in a compromising position? I know that i most certainly would not want to do that. It would be a terrible and unacceptible thing to do. He quotes things from different sections, showing that he must have looked through the entire thing, which, in my opinion, makes him a pervert and a sexual deviant. He intentionally examined the content of the object he stole even though to do so casts gross aspersions upon him.

Ham looked upon his father, laying naked in his tent, and went and told his brothers. They covered him up without looking at his nakedness. Ham was sent into servitude for his brothers for the rest of his days as punishment for what he did. Derek’s sin was a thousand times worse than Ham’s. What is his punishment going to be? I dread to think.

20 And Noah began to be an husbandman, and he planted a vineyard:

21 And he drank of the wine, and was drunken; and he was uncovered within his tent.

22 And Ham, the father of Canaan, saw the nakedness of his father, and told his two brethren without.

23 And Shem and Japheth took a garment, and laid it upon both their shoulders, and went backward, and covered the nakedness of their father; and their faces were backward, and they saw not their father’s nakedness.

24 And Noah awoke from his wine, and knew what his younger son had done unto him.

25 And he said, Cursed be Canaan; a servant of servants shall he be unto his brethren.

26 And he said, Blessed be the Lord God of Shem; and Canaan shall be his servant.

27 God shall enlarge Japheth, and he shall dwell in the tents of Shem; and Canaan shall be his servant

Derek, quite literally, is in serious trouble with how he has dishonoured his parents’ innocence and sacrosanctity.

Hams merely looked upon his father’s,Noah’s, nakedness, and was sent to servitude for the rest of his days. Derek did far worse, so imagine what his reward will be.

Ephesians 6:1-4 King James Version (KJV)

Children, do what your parents tell you. This is only right. “Honor your father and mother” is the first commandment that has a promise attached to it, namely, “so you will live well and have a long life.”

All Welcome, Take Your Seats Please.

But Derek went one step further. He invited his friends, including Donny, to his girlfriends home and unreservedly, without compunction, displayed to them the entire contents of what he stole from my cupboard in my bedroom and by them looking at it he included them in the same sin as him. We do not know what their punishment was or is yet to be, but they have been unwittingly included in Derek’s deceit and corruption. He has intoxicated them in his evil act of dishonoured his parents, so not only has he contravened a sacred covenant, but he has infected possible innocent parties to the same sin as he has commited.  Exactly the kind of person that Satan wants on his team. And guess what. His sins are as red as crimson, compared to mine being as white as driven snow after I take the sacrament this week, as he has never apologised or made restitution for what he did to Kay and I. He has never put it right. He is an unrepentant sinner who serves Beelzebub. HE IS REALLY TOXIC. I have never done anything to Derek that I need to repent for today. I have absolutely nothing to apologise to him for. He has never complained to me about anything he thinks I have done wrong. He made a decision to move away and claimed that the spirit told him to but he was not able get personal revelation because of what he did to me, which  is why he ended up in the same town as his in-laws. He answered his own prayer. He did that twice. My wife and Steven and many friends agree that he was being controlled and coerced and that they Know of nothing that I have done for him to emancipate us and stand by his decision for nearly 10 years rather then a couple of days. They just stopped loving us, and I wanted to know why?

This is not hearsay. This is actual fact.

• He stole a Private and Confedential item hidden in my bedroom cupboard.
• He removed that item from my home and took it to his girlfriends home.
• He viewed the entirety of that item, thereby imeasureably dishonouring his mother and father.
• He has divulged the contents to strangers, his spoils stolen from his parents without a care for the repercussions of his actions.
• He organised a public viewing of that item with his friends and family with no concern for the consequences.
• Today, he is telling lies about the contents of this item by saying that there are things there that are not there in his attempt to sully our name and make us look bad when the item he stole was a beautiful reminder of Kay’s and my love and dedication to each other. It is private and confidential because of the words, promises and expressions we made to each other. Solemn and sacred promises that we made to each other.
• There is nothing un-to-wards about it, but in the world we live in, it would be easily open to ridicule by people of the same calibre as Sarah Gullit, cruel piss takers and manipulators That is why it was

01. Indelibly marked Personal and Private.

02. Hidden. It was never meant for any bodies eyes to see but ours.

03. a disrespect for Derek to steel our confidential belongings and publicly share something that we did not want to be shared.

04. What a disappointment Derek turned out to be.

05. What a liar he is,

06. And how much more cruel and nasty could he act

The Wolf in Sheep’s Clothing

Let me demonstrate to you why Derek ended up In the same town as his father in law. I had shouted at his wife for allowing him to imprison and threaten a young girl in our branch. I knew that he was going to upset the apple cart instead ofs showing forth an increase in love. His wife could have stopped it but choose not to. I reported the incident to the stake and they advised me to apologise to her even though I had not done anything. So, I arranged to meet with her at her home one evening. When I got there they were all finishing off their dinner and packing it away. The first sign of something not being right was that Anne,his wife, was not there. Anyway, after packing everything away they all slowlydissapearedout the front door to their activities. That just left Jack and Kay and I in the house. There was no explanation given for Anne not being there and he took us into this small room and sat us down. Instantly, the atmosphere in that room changed and it became so cold that we could see our breath. He started to chastise us, and as he did, his voice changed into that of a roaring lion just about to pounce. I looked at Kay, and she looked at me, and I said. This is not right, I am uncomfortable with this, I think we should leave now. It was so frightening. We did leave, within minutes of us stepping into that room,and he hounded us all they to our car, shouting really obnoxious things to us in this animalistic eerie voice. We had quite clearly had an encounter with one of Satins disciples. That is how I know that he is playing on a different team to us. It was pure evil personified we felt in that small room. We never did get to apologìse to Anne, and she never apologised for not being there. I am glad that I found out the wolf beneath the sheep’s clothing though but sad  that Derek never did.