I recently wrote a piece on here about my son, Donny, however, in the interest of clarity I have to make a couple of things clear. In that piece I made it clear that Steven did not want Becci in his home. I said that because that is what Steven said to me. I do not intentionally tell lies. Steven is one of the nicest people I know. He would never intentionally offend anyone and would tell a half a truth in order to avoid offending them. Which explains the following.
After writing that blog, Becci texted Steven asking him if he did not want her there, in his home. He does not want her there but does not want to contend with her either. He has seen how nasty she was to me and does not want to invite that kind of behaviour in his home. Understandably, who would? Donny is at fault for taking her there. He knows that Steven does not want her there, he knows that Steven does not like contention. I have told him many times, yet he still keeps taking her there. I am sure just to whined me up. So, Steven told her that it is awkward for him as she had fallen out with his dad. She then piled on the coercion of her being a model sister-in-law, which, she clearly is not because of how severely she bad mouthed his dad and disrespected him. He loves his dad, so after what she did to me, he does not want her there, in his home.
Steven is, genuinely, a very nice person who loves and honours his parents, something his siblings could learn from him. Becci is most definitely not. I would advice anyone to stay as far away as possible from her, she has no friends because of who she is anyway. She is a narcissistic autonomist. Neither one of them are good but together they are catastrophic. A very real danger zone. Her husband Donny has let me down immeasurably and disappointed me for beating me up. If he had beaten up a 70 year old sick OAP, I would have been incensed with him, embarrassed and ashamed at him being my son. But it is worse than that. I am his dad. I have covered up for him so many times. He is my son, and I love him unconditionally, yet he beats me up for not apologising for saying I will haunt him when I die, a tongue in the cheek, off the cuff, remark.
I know you have read my blog, behind the curtain you hide behind with Donny next to you. I am happy in the knowledge that Steven will never be friends with you until you have made amends with me first. Text him all you like in your pathetic attempt to win him over. Steven knows the difference between right and wrong. He knows that it is wrong for a son, his brother, to beat up his dad. He knows that it is wrong for you to report his dad to the police when his dad had nothing to do with your conversation with his mum. He knows that it is wrong for you to love a post from the mentally ill mother of Hannah. A post that was hideous to read. He knows that autonomy is wrong and selfish and is a natural off shot of narcissism. He knows that you are a liar who has manipulated his brother and nephew, a speciality of autonomists.
Leave us alone Becci, you have done far to much damage as it is. I cannot make Steven stay away from you and Donny but I will do all I can to discourage it. Donny should have apologised for what he did to me. It was wrong and it is too late now. You should have apologised for mixing me up with Kay and then ringing the police with your assumption, however, narcissists and autonomists do not apologise because they never consider themselves to be wrong. I am still fuming inside at how you have taken a dislike to me and attacked me without provocation. You are obviously mentally unwell but I am too tired and old to be bothered with it.
Who would have thought that your own mum would have posted a message to me supporting me. That must tell you something. Even your mother knows what her daughter is like.
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