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Naomi’s Battleship
I have just exchanged words with Naomi over her emancipation and have realised that all though I responded to each and every attack she made on me, she hardly addressed any of my defences. Is that because, like in a game of battleships, I made direct hits that blew her out of the water, or did she simply not venture out into the rough seas.
Accusations of Exposing her Private Business
A day ago, I received the following comment from her
I will never converse in writing with you ever again for you to cut and paste to share such personal topics on abuse with the world in an attempt to belittle what you have done to us all
If I had just done this, off the cuff, I suppose I would have to answer for unnecessarily exposing her. An unwritten rule when writing on the Internet. However, those rules do not apply if she has already done to me what she accuses me of doing to her. They become ineffective because she makes herself a hypocrite. You cannot complain about the transgression of a rule that you break.
About 2 years ago I felt as though Naomi was not loyal to me, so, to test my theory there existed a family secret, or, something that had happened that Kay decided she wanted to keep it a secret. I decided to divulge that secret to Naomi to test her loyalty to me. Within 72 hours, she had broken my confidence and had told Kay what I told her and what she had agreed to keep confidential. It caused some serious repercussions. So, how on earth can she now complain about me when she did far worse? She did not respond to my query asking her just that. She totally ignored it. She does not admit to being wrong, a fundamental trait of a narcissist.
My Behaviour to Naomi’s Siblings.
The way you’re behaving towards my siblings and their amazing partners is enough for me to cut you out.
Lets just turn the tables on that for a second. Your brother, Donny, beat your father up. He came here a 1.30am drunk and disorderly and he literally beat me up, his 70 year old father. It would have been worse if not for his son, Jacob, stopping him from doing any worse. He tore out the ligaments in each of my index fingers as I was pointing at him telling him to go home and sleep it off. He twisted each finger and bent it right over backwards, and for good measure, he punched me in the nose and ran off. I could not use my fingers for two months. I would have forgiven him, but he refused to apologise. Why? Because his amazing partner, Becci, was having an altercation with your mother, Kay, over how she had treated me on Facebook and reported me for harassment to the Police. She assumed that she was talking to me instead of Kay, although it was from Kay’s mobile, and Kay made no secret that it was her. She did what most autonomous people do, she guessed, and ran with it, not knowing if her assumption was true. Not really caring if it were true or not. I had not even spoken to her. Imagine getting a phone call from the police, saying that you had been reported by someone you had not even spoken to for several months for harassment. All I did was ask Donny why she did that, and he beat me up. And what did you do to defend me? You developed a deaf ear and said absolutely nothing to that amazing person. Yes, I know, you must be fuming with your sibling behaving so badly to your Dad. How dare I ask WHY. Is that enough to cut him out?
Your brother, Derek, did something so bad to dishonour us that even mum and I do not talk about it. I would never tell anyone what he did. I am so ashamed and embarrassed. Canaan was sent into servitude for doing something similar but far less. It was horrific. The dishonour was enormous. He has never apologised to mum or I for what he did to us. It was weird even bizarre. I know, you must be incensed at what he did to us, your sibling. He could have been excommunicated for bringing the church into disrepute. He is an unrepentant sinner. Is that enough to cut him out?
Your sister, Khadra, snatched our grandchildren from your mothers arms and gave no reason. We did not fall out or have bad words, no sign of anything unto wards. Jonah thought the world of your mum. He must have been so upset at not being abĺe to see his nan anymore. How cruel is that and why. She should be reported for crueĺty to her own children and her siblings should have complained to her, but she got away with it. No reason has ever been given. Your sibling did that to your parents. You must be so angry with her. Give her the silent treatment like you did to us. After she did that, she sent a nasty message to Hannah about me, and to wind me up Hannah, one of the amazing partners you referred to, sent it to me. Is that enough to cut her out?
And what did I do
- I would not lend my University laptop to Naomi.
- I had a Chinese and gave the rest of my children fish and chips
- I did not go to my sons football games
- I asked my son why his wife reported me to the police for harassment when I had not even spoken to her.
- I actually did nothing wrong to my daughter, Khadra. She just saw the bandwagon and jumped on it.
- I washed my daughters face with cold beef stroganoff because she refused to taste it when I went without to give it to her.
- I sent Naomi to more than the average schools because we moved more than usual, rather than not send her to school at all.
- I borrowed money from Elliott and then paid it back after a short period of time.
- Elliott took a faulty item back to Argos for me and got a refund.
- I put up with Khadra’s antagonistic behaviour to me rather than falling out with her.
- I raised my voice to Oliver because he was being persistent about a situation I could not change or control.
- Kay and I where helping out a homeless and destitute woman by giving her an empty bed. She was a good friend of ours.
- Pulling Naomi’s ponies tail as I lead her indoors for Kay.
- Being mentally unwell whilst staying in her home one night.
- Unloading my problems onto Elliott.
- Using Derek’s children’s Christmas money, even though he would not let us see them over the Christmas period, to pay the vet to save Honey’s life. Honey’s life was actually saved.
- Being upset because Hannah’s mother sent me a haneous message on Facebook, and Becci loving it.
And loads more all of the same veracity. There were none there of me coming home drunk and beating up their mum and shouting at them. None their of me selling their belongings so that I could go to the pub. No stealing from them, keeping them home from school, not feeding them, and clothing them. No pimping of my daughters or sons. Just trivial inconsequential hog wash that are too innocent to label them as abusive, let alone call them bad parenting. It is all a ploy to get dad. To hurt me, the know it all who dared to feed my daughter Beef Stroganoff.
I think I may have just sunk your Battleship.
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My Name is Derek R. Smart. I have lost 5 out of 6 of my children because of a She Devil Meddler
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