We Did Our Best

<strong>Naomi did send me a WhatsApp, addressed to Derek, and called her mum Kay. She is too far gone for us, so we had no alternative but to temporarily block her. She feels uncomfortably evil. I have now lifted the block.

THIS IS WHAT SHE SENT ME

Blah blah blah
Lies lies lies
Blah blah blah
Playing the victim
Blah blah blah
Long winded crap
Boring 🥱

As I expected

This is just bad mannered, rude and angry.

You are a pathetic old man and what I predicted years ago is coming into play because you can’t just say sorry and admit your wrongdoings and try to change… COMPLETELY AND UTTERLY FULL TO THE BRIM WITH PRIDE

I am a pathetic old man. You just cannot get your assumptions anywhere near right, can you? Have I said anything in my entire words written here that compares to that disgusting insult, whether it be against Derek or Dad. She accuses me of being an abusive father and then abuses me with her foul words. Hypocritical, yes, of course. What am I full of pride about. Successfully raising 6 children to adulthood? Yes, I suppose your right

You could be surrounded by your grandchildren and children, all loving on you and spending time with you like all of our father in laws have but instead you sit in bed, in a grotty council flat, thinking up nasty posts to try to bully your children into responding to you – bravo, haven’t you done well 👏🏼 👏🏼 Your mum would be so disappointed in you and the way you’re treating her grandchildren and great grandchildren

Here we go with Naomi’s famous assumptions that she almost always gets wrong. Sit at home in bed? I am out and about in our new car with Kay every day. You could not be anymore wrong. My grotty council flat is a piece of heaven for Kay and I, it is certainly not grotty. Home is where the heart is so wrong again. You try so hard to deflate my ego and make me feel bad about myself. It is called “Gas Lighting.” It is so sadistic to try and cause me to lose my confidence.

My mum loves me. She can plainly see how you are allowing Satan to control your mouth. No one speaks to anyone in the soul destroying way that you do. I am so ashamed of you. You have no one to share your life’s successes with, accept for the capitalist, Oliver. You have cut us out of your life, but we are surviving. We have little time left but we are enjoying ourselves. It is not nice of you but it certainly is what we expected from you. We still have our best son, Steven, who is a saint compared to you. He never speaks to me like you do. You know Steven, the one you punched in the stomach and made him ill. I suppose we should of known then what you would turn out like.

Hahahah same old victim again – you sound so stupid saying Oliver made the boys like team miles away – the boys don’t support the same team as him 😂 😂 😂

You’d know that if you knew them I guess 😜

Just look at that statement to see who is looking stupid

.Oh Derek, that’s actually hilarious that you’re doing a book 😂

Not hilarious but very lucrative.

Who the hell is Jenny?
She hasn’t spoken to you for years and now you’re painting her in some light of a lifelong friend? Delusional 😜

Again another of your assumptions that you are totally wrong about. Jenny knows you  very well. Jenny is at the other end of the spectrum to you, the complete antithesis to you.

FYI I don’t live in feniton anymore, Jude now plays rugby instead of football and enjoys a lovely private secondary school and Zach is thriving in a new area and beautiful home that you’ll never see

Naomi thinks that if her kids are in a private school, and she lives in a mortgaged house, then she is a better person than some one who lives in a grotty council flat. how wrong she is.

5 out of 6 kids have accused you of abusive behaviour and we all know you have abused our mother all these years and still do. But you’re right, it’s not just pointed at you but also pointed at Kay as she has allowed you to do it!

They accuse, but they never substantiate or say where in I have abused them, accepting you and Elliott that have such trivial complaints it is almost laughable, indeed, many have smiled or laughed when told. Barely touching the surface of the real abuse scale. If they tried they would be shot down in flames as you have been, they are cowards. Look how you have exposed yourself to the world. A bitter, twisted and overweight stay at home mother contributing nothing to the real world. You are just seeking daddies attention, and you’re not getting your own way, so out go the rattles, dummies and bottle.

Poor Kay. How cruelly you have treated her. How monumentally wrong your assumption is about her. You will have to pay a hefty price for the abuse you served up to her. 70 years old and no card, what mentality you have. You have become a very bad person who enjoys administering emotional pain to her family. I know I do not abuse her, I love her. Most importantly, she knows I do not abuse her, but, she also knows how spurious your assumptions are. Is there anything real in your world or is it all assumptions that you turn into your facts.

 

My life is so lovely, I have a wonderful family and lots of amazing close friends and have pure gratitude to the lord everyday for everything I’ve achieved despite having no support from so-called parents. I’m so proud of myself for putting myself through college and university after leaving school without one single qualification because you both didn’t pay an interest in my education.

So, was I not paying attention when I set up work experience for you where I was a Project Engineer. How soon you forget. Where did your cloths come from whilst at school, who fed you, ferried you around, paid for school equipment, gave you a bed to sleep in, washed your clothing in our washing machine, gave you cleaning facilties and washed your face in beef stroganoff.

There is no loyalty amongst friends that compares to the loyalty found in a blood relative. I do not need to see your new house but you want me to. I do not need to know that Jude is in a private school but you want me to. You too were in a private school. Fooling yourself that you had no support from your parents achieves what exactly? recognition? We supported you and you know that. You just want a pat on the back for being so special. People like you need that. Your sister thought that you and Oliver were so weird she did not want to talk to you for years.

You can say what you like and spout out lies as much as you want because you cannot hurt me anymore. I know my truth, I know my memories and I know everytime I see you slating myself, my siblings and their beautiful partners off that you are still the same bitter ugly old soul that you have always been.

I feel sorry for you and what you’ve done to Kay, how bitter you sound and lonely you must be. But I can’t be around you as I feel so uncomfortable in your presence, there’s s darkness that lingers within you that you refuse to fight off.

Jesus’s said that in the last days people will mistake evil for good, light for dark, and right for wrong. What you feel is light mistaken for darkness. All a part of your possession. You are bound to feel uncomfortable in my presence.

Get ye behind me Satan. The whole paragraph is intended to hurt another human being, your mother. By this alone your true colours are revealed. You are a disciple of the devil.

You would feel uncomfortable in my presence. I wear the full armour of God and know who controls your mouth. The evil spirit that possesses you is familiar to me and I know what he/she is doing to you so of course you will feel uncomfortable, we are at opposite ends of the Good v Evil Spectrum.

To feel that you must disrespect your mother by calling her Kay is a blatant sign of a very bitter person. You call her Kay because you want to hurt her, that is your main objective, to hurt another human being. That just makes you an undesirable person to know.

What I have done to Kay is to make her happy

Kay is as happy as anyone can be. She knows her worth, she knows what she has achieved. She is very much loved as she loves. She smiles a lot. Nothing much gets her down and she too has carried and brought 6 souls to earth and raised them all successfully. She is very happy with herself.

The thing is, I am not lonely. My life is full. I have Kay by my side, some really good friends, our dog Willow and my son Steven. I see Steven every day. Why would I be lonely?

The thing is I am not bitter. I have had a wonderful life. I raised six children into adulthood successfully , I have an honours degree, I designed and put into production a commercial vehicle unique refrigeration unit, I have a plethora of skills that I can still draw on, I have had a happy 50 years of marriage, I have a brand new car outside my home, I have achieved so much and I am a Christian. Why would you think I am bitter, I am not.

Without all the histrionic abuse.
The way you’re behaving towards my siblings and their amazing partners is enough for me to cut you out. The way you’re trying to come for Oliver, myself and our boys is enough. Nice, loving, happy people don’t behave like that. Especially parents towards their own children. It’s weird and unnatural. What do you gain from all this wickedness I wonder. No pawns left to do your dirty work. I just don’t know. You’re a very black soul, god have mercy on you 🖤