Well, that is it folks. I know I am long winded and have to tell it all. But hanging your dirty washing on the line gives you a sense of freedom and relief, especially so when you feel it vindicates you.. But I have concluded my mission now, to demonstrate to the world, and most importantly, myself, that I did my best to raise my children properly, ethically and morally astute. I am going to give up on trying to make amends with them now that I have written my conclusions on each of them, which will go into my book. They are like the tin man, they have no heart, for them to care about how much they have hurt us you have to have a heart for that, and the silence persists which must mean that I have lost my grandchildren and they have shown the world how cruel they have been to their parents and how bad they have been as parents to deprive their children of two loving and caring grandparents, and an uncle, plus, of course, what must they have told them about where Nanny and grandad have gone. Remembering, they emancipated us, that is not what we wanted. We love our children and always will, just now not without intripedation.
What I feel is that each of my wayward children have used my grandchildren to try and hurt me and Kay, specifically. It worked but no more. That is the epitome of poor parenting to use unsuspecting innocent children as instruments to inflict pain and suffering on caring grandparents. It goes without saying that we are conscientious caring grandparent otherwise we would not have reacted to the ploy devised by poor parents, my children and there spouses, unless we actually cared about them facilitating their escapades in hurting us emotionally. So, you no longer have to put up with my gripes anymore but I am thankful that I had a place to go where I could vent and expose the genuine rationale of our wayward children. That is, to deliver maximum pain and suffering to their parents by using their children as weapons of destruction. and calamity. Bad, bad People.
Please do not take this as a end of my fight against Satan. That will never end all the time there is evil in the world and evil people like the autonomous Becci (Becky) Smart and the meddling Hannah Smart bringing shame to my name. That is HANNAH SMART who delivered the coup de grace of death to my family and fooled everyone that she is an angel of light. That used her own children to intentionally hurt Kay and I. They will come to know that when they become adults.
This is the message you sent me when you fell out with Elliott over three years ago. Letting us know that Kay would no longer be permitted to use Steven’s car to visit her grandchildren
Derek
I do not recognise this screen shot, although it is true to say that the car is registered to Steven so he has the final say with it.
This is the original message you sent to Elliott over three years ago letting him know he was no longer’allowed access’ to any of you. Cutting him and your grandchildren out of your lives. Because he wouldn’t engage in slagging khadra off with you
Derek
This is where your satanic prowuce and manipulation comes into being. You have taken the words of a previous altercation, that was resolved and no longer has any efficacy and attached it to this altercation. True, I said this but our disagreement was resolved making this remark null and void. The subtlety you would expect from a disciple of Satan. Thank goodness that I have my Amour of God on and can see through your deception.
This is the message I sent to Kay after you sent those messages trying to see if she could still sneak her way in when Elliott wasn’t here so that my children could still have a relationship with her while the rest of you played with your pride
This is a conversation I had with Kay last year about arranging contact between her and my children that SHE Denied because of you
Derek
Of course it was because of me. Do you not recognise the bond that married people have with each other. You said you did not want me involved for no other reason but to cause pain and anguish. What to expect with a disciple of Satan.
I’m saying that God would never force me or anyone to be around someone who has consistently proved themselves to be an abusive lunatic. More unprovoked insults and judgements
So maybe, JUST MAYBE, take a little minute of reflection and realise this is all on you. And stop trying to convince the world that the reason you don’t have a relationship with your son and my children is because I stopped you. Because until you couldn’t leave me alone that wasn’t the case. You honestly need to keep my name out of your mouth. This constant harrassment is insane
What constant harrassment? You contacted me, again.
Screenshot are 3 years old.
LIES, INNUEDOS, FALSE ACCUSATIONS, THREATS, INSULTS, ANTAGONISM, HATRED Are all your traits and the traits of Satan. Get yea behind me Satan. I have not done the same to you. If I go to social services this all comes with me. It is all recorded and will be on my blog tomorrow
QUOTE: I was sat in my living room enjoying my retirement when a she devil enticed me to be her friend on Façebook. Within days I lost my children as a direct result of her meddling. I am a innocent lamb who has been lead to the slaughter. Beware of the wolf dressed in sheep’s clothing. You might be next. That She Devil was Hannah Smart. I AM DONE
oh my goodness. I do know that they are three years old? You know that right? It’s like the point just flew straight over the top of your head.
This is what you were hoping but I caught you red handed in your manipulation
This is just a string of lies
You initially cut yourselves off from us. Yes, the first time. Here’s the proof. When you were ‘innocently’ sat in your living room and had a request off me, that was Christmas time. No, not true I’ve told you this. Because we had Naomi here and all the boys and I thought it would have been nice for you to have seen them all together. Bullshit. I also thought we hadn’t had any abuse off you for a while, and I knew you had been back to church so yeah I thought you had done some changing. So yes I added you TO REACH OUT. Again. Bullshit.
Derek R Smart
I do not recall it being Christmas. What abuse do you refer to, again. You never say.
Apologised for what? More ambiguity, what faults, I have them but you need to be more specific.
Hannah
As soon as I added you you started slagging me off all over Facebook again, simply because you knew I could see it. Not true proving to me that I was in fact mistaken and you had not changed. The next time I contacted you was JULY. On Elliott’s birthday. And you weren’t innocently sitting in your living room you were sending him abusive messages to his BUSINESS page. Not true You didn’t even wish him a happy birthday you just went on about how Kay was missing out because Elliott cut her out. Which he had
When as we can see above, it was you that cut her off from him. I might have said the words but we agreed at that time. No one said it was indeffinate
So I commented on your status about he, but why?! Because it was full of abuse. So I didn’t come attacking you, I came defending us. Because I’m sick to death of all your bullshit manipulation. What bullsĥit Manipulation, you never elaborate
I laid everything out on the table. And so did Elliott. And you never not once apologised to him. You say you’re entitled to his forgiveness but never once have you acknowledged your faults, and asked him for it.
Elliott did no such thing of the sort. He was no doubt hid behind a curtain some where
In what world do five adult humans cut out their parents and it not be the fault of the parents?! The math ain’t mathing there Derek.
In what world? Why, in this world of course. There are 82 million families in the USA suffering with family emancipation. 80% of those come from broken homes, just like yours. You are not used to living in a safe and secure family unit so you cannot adapt to it. Eventually you take away the empathy and compassion of those raised in environments like Elliott’s replacing it with what you are used to. There are so many different studies and you come out with a nieve comment like that.
This is all you, and there’s not a single person outside of your little flat that disagrees. True, there are millions. Another ploy of Satan’s, to make you feel secluded and on your own. Gas lighting. Everyone can see what you are and what you’ve done. That is right, thank you. And what you will simply continue to do because you’re so self-righteous. Yep! Sing a different song already
You have completely twisted the actual event around, surprise, surprise. This was written at the time.
I continue because I was sat in my living room looking at my Facebook account and notice I had a friends request from you. I, of course, accepted it because I am not a grudge holder and there may have been a chance for Kay to see her grandchildren. How wrong was I? you attacked me with all the venom of a viper. You instigated an attack that could have been amicably discussed over a meal at the Harvesters, but, instead, you blew it all out of proportion and invited your family and friends to join in, Cyber Bullying. I was totally innocent and did not quite know how to respond to such hostility. You were seeking confrontation. I am confused as to what I did that made my children so phlegmatic and apathetic over this distress and upset they have caused there loyal parents. Look at the photos, our children were happy, contented, until they meet their respective partners who gradually corrupted their value system and morals we instilled into them. They taught them the art of disrespect and hostility.
Hannah
YOU ARE A TERRIBLE FATHER. What a terrible thing to say to a proud father. That’s what you did. How are you so confused about this? And why are you so obsessed with solving things at the harvester? They do nice meals. The only way this was ever going to be solved was by you accepting your faults and apologising. Which you never did do and never will do. Your pride has cost you almost everything.
My pride is in tack. I have lost nothing that God did not want me to learn by. It is you who is the loser. You need to recognise who we are and apologise for the heartache you have caused two innocent people. If I needed to apologise to Elliott for anything I would have done it, but that is none of your business. You are an evil meddler. We are not your only victims, are we. Goodbye Hannah.
who else is a victim of my evil meddling?
Derek R Smart
I have nothing to apologise to Elliott for but I did anyway. I did nothing wrong and you could never show anything that I had done to warrant you meddling in things that had nothing to do with you. 82 million couple in the USA are enduring the same treatment that you inflicted on Kay and I. It is not the fault of my children it is their spouses and the broken homes they come from. This behaviour is what they are used to. They know no different. It is also one of Satan’s best used ploys, bullying, using family and friend who are of the same elk as you. Please be assured that unlike you i do not need the backing from anybody else , though I have enough, so all the time their is truth in my mouth your name will be their also. Satan will eventually fail in trying to win over God. You cannot hide from the truth. You are a disciple of Satan who has slowly lured my son into paths of unrighteousness. You need to be held accountable for destroying an entire family but I have wiped my hands of Elliott, I no longer recognise him, and will leave the Lord to hold you accountable for your lies, innuendos and false accusations. Now go away back to sinning into your silence and leave us alone. I am not going to argue with you anymore. I want nothing to do with you. I will pick up the baton for my grandchildren when they are older. To deprive your children of having caring, loving grandparents makes you and Elliott bad parents. To prevent us from seeing them is cruel and satanic. That is what people are now saying. They do not like what you are doing.
Hannah
You never once apologised to him, absolute lies. You need to apologise to him for always putting your selfish needs and desires before his. For being a less than bare minimum parent. For making him lie and steal. For being a terrible example and showing him it’s okay to be racist, and abusive and to lie and steal and cheat. For putting him and his siblings off against each other, ruining their relationships. For harassing and abusing his wife. And that’s just to name a few.
Derek R Smart
Elliott always came first. My children always took presidence over Kay and I. Look at the pictures numpty, they tell the full true story. Then another string of lies. Look at who our best friend is, who we brought across from Guyana and supported her. Not exactly the best Friend of a racist. What abuse do you speak of, what lies have I told. You never say. What did I steal, who did I cheat. What children did I turn against each other. Look at the thousands of photos showing happy children. Only you make the false accusations that I abuse my wife. She has been married to me for 50 years. Let’s see if you reach the same record. I doubt it.
Hannah
I begged Kay to continue being a part of my children’s lives after you threw your toys out of the pram. But you know what, them not knowing you and not having your vile toxic behaviours more unprovoked insults as a part of their lives will forever be the best thing that happened to them. You’re not loving. You’re not caring . You’re actually a self obsessed psychopath more unprovoked insults who simply doesn’t like the fact that I had the lady balls to stand up to you. You had the disrespect and callous nature and no evidence for lies you clearly told. Typical bully. I live in your head rent free. All the time. YOU THINK You literally cannot stop talking about me or thinking about me. It’s honestly a little bit bizzare and massively creepy. You are so off the mark. I have never been into munters
People are saying noThing you delusional head case more unprovoked insults and judging
I stand by every decision I have ever made when it comes to you. Nephi was commanded to abandon his family and flee into the wilderness for his own safety so don’t come at me pretending like God wants us to continue relationships with people who abuse us. It’s completely illogical you loon.
Derek R Smart
Illogical is it. A commandment is what it is. You do not have a clue, do you?
John 13:34-35. A new commandment I give unto you. Love one another. As I have loved you, you must love one another. By this shall men know ye are my disciples, if you have love one to another
Have you ever heard of Job. Probably not.
Are you saying that God has commanded you to abandon your children’s grandparents. You know nothing about the religion that you belong to and neither does Elliott.
Then why are you here abusing and insulting me. Go away if you think this is Gods design instead of the fallen angel that you serve. Your all mouth Hannah. You know nothing and have no evidence for your slurs
because I’ve had a guts full of you and your lies. Your abuse and your harrassment. I’ve waited weeks for this to be sorted through official channels but I’ve run out of patience now. But it’s coming
I am sure you will, but I am on the Lords side and I wear the full armour of God. Do your worst.
I did apologise to Elliott. I have a screen shot with it because I knew you would deny it.
What lies. What am I lying about. What abuse, what harassment do you refer to. Surely you see that is you
INSULTS, PITHY BARBS, LIES, INNUEDOS AND FALSE ACCUSATION. This is how you portray yourself to you audience. No decent person takes the method of someone else’s child rearing skill, when they were not even their to see it and tries to bring them to ac… See more
You have five kids out of six that choose not to know you. The math speaks for itself like
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